The Banana Mush

. The end result of Lift coffee's "cafe latte". Up-Close & Not So Personal How can intimacy be so uncomfortable and unwanted? By yours truly, Karla. The act of being up close & personal with a person is usually a positive intimate moment, when it's someone you are "googly eyes" over for in that moment - to be exact. It wasn't the case for me on a Saturday night as a server. An entitled regular, a mother, pulled me up close to her face as I set the hot sake with two ceramic miniature cups at their table.  In the moment, as she exhaled on my face. Her voice reeked of sweetness, despite the bitter & insulting words.  I looked at the vast, & open window of the Japanese grill restaurant. The interaction felt dehumanizing and her tone energized her soul and drained mine.  My eyes traced to the guest's family and the wide-eyed daughter whom the bitter mom defended with the sharp vocaliz